Tuesday, February 1, 2011

Happiness Without a Cause

I enjoy the Zen podcasts that Amy downloaded for me while I’m exercising.  They calm me down; remind me I don’t have to fix everything or have everything perfect.
They say to me:
Don’t be anxious about the fact that the world isn’t perfect.
Live in *trust
                 *integrity
                 *gratitude
                 *generosity
                 *mindfulness
BE IN THE MOMENT
Present for one another.
Because you are present, you are connected.
Mystery brings happiness.  We don’t have to have all the answers.  The mind that is not baffled is not employed.
Just be happy.
Happiness without a cause.
 If someone is suffering, you do them no favors to take upon yourself their suffering.  You be well so you can help them get well.
 A Brief for the Defense
by Jack Gilbert
Sorrow everywhere. Slaughter everywhere. If babies
are not starving someplace, they are starving
somewhere else. With flies in their nostrils.
But we enjoy our lives because that's what God wants.
Otherwise the mornings before summer dawn would not
be made so fine. The
Bengal tiger would not
be fashioned so miraculously well. The poor women
at the fountain are laughing together between
the suffering they have known and the awfulness
in their future, smiling and laughing while somebody
in the village is very sick. There is laughter
every day in the terrible streets of
Calcutta,
and the women laugh in the cages of
Bombay.
If we deny our happiness, resist our satisfaction,
we lessen the importance of their deprivation.
We must risk delight. We can do without pleasure,
but not delight. Not enjoyment. We must have
the stubbornness to accept our gladness in the ruthless
furnace of this world. To make injustice the only
measure of our attention is to praise the Devil.
If the locomotive of the Lord runs us down,
we should give thanks that the end had magnitude.
We must admit there will be music despite everything.
We stand at the prow again of a small ship
anchored late at night in the tiny port
looking over to the sleeping island: the waterfront
is three shuttered cafés and one naked light burning.
To hear the faint sound of oars in the silence as a rowboat
comes slowly out and then goes back is truly worth
all the years of sorrow that are to come.

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