Monday, April 15, 2013

The Confluence




The Virgin River is a tributary of the Colorado River. The river is about 162 miles long.  It was designated Utah's first wild and scenic river in 2009, during the centennial celebration of Zion National Park..
Its origin is in Southwestern Utah, at Navajo Lake in the Dixie National Forest, north of Zion National Park, and is formed by the confluence of the East Fork Virgin River, that flows through Orderville on the east side of Zion National Park and Parunaweap Canyon, with the North Fork Virgin River, that flows from Navajo Lake through Zion Canyon in Zion National Park. The river flows in a southwesterly direction, passing south of the old townsite of St. George where the Santa Clara River joins the Virgin at a place the Paiutes called Tonaquint. The river then flows across the northwestern corner of Arizona through the Virgin River Gorge. It enters southern Nevada near the town of Mesquite and empties into the Colorado at the Lake Mead reservoir, approximately 40 miles east of Las Vegas. The last 30 miles of the Virgin River forms the north arm of Lake Mead.
When we were kids we sometimes played in the East Fork Virgin River that ran through our hometown and more specifically along the border of our Little Field where we planted alfalfa, a vegetable garden and fruit trees.  We bragged to each other that it was the head of the Virgin River.  Besides jumping in to cool off after picking peas from 5 ‘till 8 am, we always ran to the “crick” to watch the flash floods that put terror in our already rapidly beating hearts from the dash to witness the phenomenon.
Another summer activity was going out to the sheep herd with Daddy.  To get to "the Oaks", we took the North Fork Road where the North Fork Virgin River flows from Navajo Lake to meet the East Fork Virgin River originating in Orderville.
Recently, we spent a week in our house in SunRiver St. George.  As Amy and I rode our bikes along the partially washed out trail along the Virgin River between SunRiver and Bloomington, nearly every day we stopped to wade in the icy cold water of the Virgin River—the river that is a combination of many cherished childhood memories.
Somewhere stirring in my soul, I felt a confluence, a joining, a union, a meeting of my life; past and present.  It seemed to wrap things up for me.  The beginning and the end.
Amy's photo.  Taken from the bike trail in SunRiver looking towards Pine Mountain.

Told you the Virgin River flooded.  This trail was under water for months. 
My great grandparents, who heeded the call to settle the Muddy Mission,
had to cross the Virgin River eleven times over the worst roads in the Utah territory
to get their supply wagons (tithing) to St. George.
In March of 1870, Brigham Young visited the Muddy Mission.  
He was disappointed and wondered who would advise him
to send families to this "God-forsaken place."

And other things:  (Photography by Amy.)


This if a far cry from the original settlers along the Virgin River.
And far from my progenitors settling the Muddy
who, due to lack of timber,
 put bundles of cattails on their roofs which kept the sun out
but not the rain or sand.
One woman reported she swept up three bushels of sand from her house.
Summer temperatures 115-125 degrees.
An egg would roast in a short time lying on the sand.
By watering carrots in the morning,
they would be cooked by noon so that the skins
would just slip off as they pulled them.
Someone wrote,
"I've been very much amused to see the children
going home from school at noon.
They would take their bonnets, aprons, or some green brush if they had them
in their hands and run as far as they could,
throw them down and stand on them until their feet cooled off and
then run again."  No shoes down there.

Thursday, April 11, 2013

Fair and Square


Each day we are home,
Ed and I play games.
The first game we play is Rummikub.
Generally, Ed sets the tiles out
while I do up the breakfast dishes.
Ed doesn’t cheat,
but without fail he ends up with the red wild tile.
“I don’t cheat,”
he says emphatically when we chide him.
And then mysteriously,
I start getting the black wild tile.
How fair is that?
The tiles are upside down
but he puts the red where
he knows he will draw it
and the black on my side
so I’ll draw it.
Every day.
And every day,
I smile as I think of how thoughtful and gentle he is,
cheating fairly and squarely.

Tuesday, April 9, 2013

An Easter Gift



Easter Evening
       arriving in sunny St. George.
       we walk into our house that has been rented for the past six months.
       Three different renters.
Immaculate.
       A cheery potted plant greets us;
       Crocheted throws precisely placed on matching chairs on either side.
       Fresh cut daisies on the patio.
       Too cute.
       A potted plant centerpiece in the dining room.
       Candles on the mantle.
Everything is shiny and bright.
       The mirrors, windows, oven door, showers.     
       No smudges on the walls or door frames.
       Fans dusted.
       Baseboards clean as a whistle.
       Counters pristine.
       Carpets and tile impeccable.
Who has done this?
I want to meet this woman.
       Every drawer organized to the hilt.
       Each towel, cloth and rag folded to perfection.
We had messed things up a bit before I remembered to take pictures.
       Even each shelf in the laundry room.
       Cleaning materials and soap lined up like soldiers on parade.
       Paper towels between each precisely placed pot and pan.
Every corner, crevice, crack and cranny spotless.
I am in awe.
       A green ribbon tied around the extra toilet paper roll.
       The toilet paper on the holder folded to a V.
The garage, the entry way, the patio.
       All perfect.
       Beyond perfect.
“Is she fat?” I asked DeRay, who met them when they moved in.
I’ve got to find something wrong with this woman.
Amy says I’m insulting, insinuating fat is bad.
I don’t mean that.
I only mean it’s not perfect.
I should know.
The next day, they drop by.
(She’s thin and beautiful.)
They didn’t really go home to Montana.
They are house and dog-sitting for their friends up the street.
I thanked her from the bottom of my heart
for this amazing Easter gift.
“Are you obsessive compulsive?”
Amy says I insulted her again.
Inquiring minds want to know.
I want what she’s got.
I want to be like her when I grow up,
even though she’s younger than I am.
How I love the drawers and shelves organized and beautiful.
       Even the junk drawer.
       Even the spatulas and spoons.
I am inspired to go home and start cleaning;
one drawer or shelf or closet a day.
To surround myself with beauty and order.
“Do you live like this every day or just at the end?”
“Every day,” her husband blurts.
How would it be?
“You have to had been in the hotel management business,”
I say to her.
“No one else would know all the appealing welcoming tricks of the trade.”
“Yes, in Montana we ran a Dude Ranch that is rated #1 in America
       and #2 in the world.”
And they stayed in our humble abode, transforming it into a castle
       in two short months.

As the week went by,
       I thought I would find something wrong,
       A chink in the armor.
       An Achilles’ Heel.
Instead I found more order and cleanliness to amaze me.
Everything is clean and tidy and beautiful beyond belief.
Well, okay, the toilet paper was on the roll backwards for me
       But I’m different from most everyone else
       So I can’t fault that.
       In her honor, I didn’t change it.
We just spent a week in heaven.
I didn’t know it would mean so much to me.
I joyfully believe in Fairytales and Castles and the
      Transforming gifts of Easter