Sunday, June 28, 2015

Honoring Differences

Churches have a long history of punishing anyone who isn’t perfect in every way. When maybe, in the eyes of God, the worst sin of all is to not love, accept, honor, respect, and include those who have no control over the conditions under which they were born. Maybe marginalizing, rejecting, and ostracizing them is grievous to God, especially when it leads to suicide.

Supreme Court Ruling Makes Same-Sex Marriage a Right Nationwide
By Adam Liptak  JUNE 26, 2015
WASHINGTON — In a long-sought victory for the gay rights movement, the Supreme Court ruled by a 5-to-4 vote on Friday that the Constitution guarantees a right to same-sex marriage.
“No longer may this liberty be denied,” Justice Anthony M. Kennedy wrote for the majority in the historic decision. “No union is more profound than marriage, for it embodies the highest ideals of love, fidelity, devotion, sacrifice and family. In forming a marital union, two people become something greater than once they were.”
Marriage is a “keystone of our social order,” Justice Kennedy said, adding that the plaintiffs in the case were seeking “equal dignity in the eyes of the law.”
The decision, which was the culmination of decades of litigation and activism, set off jubilation and tearful embraces across the country, the first same-sex marriages in several states, and resistance — or at least stalling — in others. It came against the backdrop of fast-moving changes in public opinion, with polls indicating that most Americans now approve of the unions.
As Justice Kennedy finished announcing his opinion from the bench on Friday, several lawyers seated in the bar section of the court’s gallery wiped away tears, while others grinned and exchanged embraces.
Outside the Supreme Court, the police allowed hundreds of people waving rainbow flags and holding signs to advance onto the court plaza as those present for the decision streamed down the steps. “Love has won,” the crowd chanted as courtroom witnesses threw up their arms in victory.
In remarks in the Rose Garden, President Obama welcomed the decision, saying it “affirms what millions of Americans already believe in their hearts.”
“Today,” he said, “we can say, in no uncertain terms, that we have made our union a little more perfect.
 SALT LAKE CITY (ABC 4 Utah) In a historic decision, the U.S. Supreme Court ruled Friday that gay and lesbian couples across the country have a constitutional right to marry.
The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints issued the following statement Friday:
"The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints acknowledges that following today's ruling by the Supreme Court, same-sex marriages are now legal in the United States. The Court's decision does not alter the Lord's doctrine that marriage is a union between a man and a woman ordained by God. While showing respect for those who think differently, the Church will continue to teach and promote marriage between a man and a woman as a central part of our doctrine and practice."
The Church has outlined its doctrine and position on marriage in the document The Divine Institution of Marriage.
Like religious adherents across the nation, Utah faith groups were divided in their reactions to Friday's Supreme Court ruling allowing same-sex marriage throughout the U.S. — some were disappointed, others exhilarated.
Utah's two largest religions, the predominant LDS Church and Salt Lake City's Catholic Diocese, maintain that marriage is only between a man and a woman, and neither church is about to bend its teachings or its opposition to gay marriage.
The high court has jurisdiction in civil laws, but not over heavenly decrees, they argue, and both faiths want to keep it that way.
"The court's decision does not alter the Lord's doctrine that marriage is a union between a man and a woman ordained by God," The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints said in a news release. "While showing respect for those who think differently, the church will continue to teach and promote marriage between a man and a woman as a central part of our doctrine and practice."
Given the Constitution's freedom-of-religion protections, enshrined in the First Amendment, the ruling does not force churches to recognize same-sex marriages.
That means, of course, that marriages performed in LDS temples will continue to be between only faithful men and women. Mormons view such marriages as lasting for eternity.
LDS leaders teach that same-sex attraction is not a sin, only acting on it is.
Top Mormon officials, including apostle D. Todd Christofferson, also have said Latter-day Saints who support gay marriage are not in danger of losing their church memberships or temple privileges.
The Salt Lake City Diocese, which oversees Utah's 300,000-plus Catholics, said the court's ruling does not end "the debate over the definition of marriage."
"As Catholics, we seek to uphold our traditional belief in marriage as a sacrament, a well established and divinely revealed covenant between one man and one woman, a permanent and exclusive bond meant to provide a nurturing environment for children and the fundamental building block to a just society," the diocese said in a statement. "Although we respectfully disagree with those who would define marriage otherwise, we firmly hold that all persons are loved by our compassionate God and deserve the respect and dignity that is inherently theirs as human beings."
Utah Catholics "acknowledge the right of our nation's highest court to provide for a well-ordered society," the statement added, "by establishing laws that protect the common good and safeguard the civil and contractual rights and privileges of its citizens."
At the same time, however, the diocese urged Utah "lawmakers and judges to respect those institutions that are beyond state and federal jurisdiction, institutions such as sacramental marriage that transcend civil law and whose origins precede the existence of the state and go beyond its competence."
Imam Muhammed Mehtar, who leads services at the Khadeeja Islamic Center in West Valley City, took much the same approach.
"It is our duty to teach that which is good and refrain from that which is poor in choice," Mehtar said. "God wishes us to continue procreation for the sake of sharing good, kind, loving values."
By that, the imam means in "traditional" male-female led families.
Still, Muslims live in a country "whose values are secular," Mehtar said. "In such an environment, we feel that when individuals make choices that are contrary to us, we will try to defend them, their safety and well-being. We will never say, 'Hurt gays and lesbians, or take away their rights, or that they are less human than we are.' "
Muslims should simply say, he explained, that "we have different values."
Other people of faith cheered the ruling.
Why are churches the last when they should be first for social and spiritual justice?  For acceptance of those who are different? 
And I’m not just talking about gays.  
After an incident that happened here last week, for us in our situation I feel:
I am not connected to humanity
I am an island
I stand alone
 Where is compassion? Love? Acceptance? Respect for the rights and privileges of those who are different? Loving kindness?
“Though we are incomplete, God loves us completely. Though we are imperfect, He loves us perfectly. Though we may feel lost and without compass, God's love encompasses us completely. ... He loves every one of us, even those who are flawed, rejected, awkward, sorrowful, or broken.” Dieter F. Uchtdorf

 “Don't judge me because I sin differently from you.”  Dieter F. Uchtdorf
Speaking of sinners, my hearing aids have no church training. Right during the sacrament prayer, they go “bing – bing – bing” then sing “Do – Re – Mi”. 
Irreverent.

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