Thursday, September 1, 2016

The Best Advice Ever

Just as we reach the door to the gym, the fire alarm blares. I don’t catch on for a minute but Ed knows instantaneously what is going on. “Oh NO!” he laments.  “It’s a fire drill,” a young mother with three kids hanging on her smiles, as we pass through the doors. “For the school?” I question. The Clearfield Aquatic Center is connected to and part of North Davis Junior High.  Lights flashing; unearthly sirens resounding in a multitude of blasts relentlessly. Evidently, it takes more than usual to get the attention of junior high school students. Inside the lobby, everyone is calm. Business as usual. Firemen standing in small groups conversing as if they have no place to go. There are usually fire trucks and emergency vehicles parked at the gym; that’s what they do while waiting to be heroes. When Ed got in big trouble at the Ogden gym, the EMT's were already there. They thought they were going to lose him before they got to the hospital but that's another story. 
   As we pass by this one fireman standing alone, I query through the blare, “Why aren’t we running?” He ponders a moment and I think he isn’t going to reply, when he looks around and says, “I’m waiting to see smoke so I’ll know which way to run.”
So true. What if we had run in the wrong direction straight into the fire?
One time at the Heathrow Airport near London, the fire alarm resounded the two hours we were waiting in line. No one wanted to lose their place in line to vacate and eventually, just before we got to the desk, it stopped.
It unnerves Ed almost to the point of fainting like Diane always did when she heard a siren.
The blaring of noise and lights continues all the time we are dressing for the pool. Playing along, I jump in thinking the fire can’t get me there. Ed comes without his fins. “Where are your fins?” It’s about the last straw for him.
 Finally silence. “Thank heavens, it’s enough to make one forget his fins,” I console Ed.

Moral: Wait to see smoke so you’ll know which direction to run.  


The next day, I asked a woman in the dressing room
if she were there yesterday for the blaring fire alarm.
"No, but once we were swimming when the fire alarm
went off and they made everyone get out of the pool
and go out to the patio
beyond the fence in the dead of winter.
My friend and I slipped into the changing room
and grabbed our bags. They were yelling at us to
get out but at least we had our car keys
and our clothes. We could have been out on that
patio for two hours."
Rocky, the senior 17-time gold metal winner
at the Utah Games,
was back today for the first time in a month.
He was one who had to get out of the pool,
go out soaking wet in bare feet and stand in the snow.
For how long?
"At least 1/2 hour. We about froze to death.
They finally brought us towels.
It was awful."
"Then about two years ago, a kid came to school with a gun.
He was going to shoot his teacher.
They made us all get out of the pool
and go into the classroom.
I had my swim team and I looked at all those windows
and thought, 'We are not safe here',
we need to be in the Janitor's closet with a metal door'."
Never a dull moment
when you're connected to a junior high school.

Tuesday, August 23, 2016

Approaching Eighty

“I am completely worn out,” I think as I struggle up the stairs, stopping to puff at the top. It’s not night time after a hard day’s work; it’s morning.
It reminds me of what Eddy said when he was six years old; "School wears me out and school wears my clothes out too."
Life wears me out and life wears my clothes out too.
   I wonder if my clothes and I will wear out at exactly the same time or if I’ll have to buy new clothes.

Monday, August 15, 2016

All Home Again, the Cats are In.

We’re all in our places
With bright smiling faces.
In the leafy tree tops
The birds sing “Good morning”.
Jesus wants me for a sunbeam
To shine for Him each day.
When your heart is filled with love,
Others will love you.
There are two little magic words
That will open any door for me.
Teach me dear Father to freely forgive
All who have been unkind to me.
Give, then, as Jesus gives;
There is something all can give.
Head, shoulders, knees, and toes,
Eyes, ears, mouth, and nose.
Out came the sun and dried up all the rain
Eensy weensy spider went up the spout again.
If you chance to meet a frown, do not let it stay.
Quickly turn it upside down and smile that frown away.
Early to bed and early to rise
Makes a man healthy, wealthy and wise.
So I say to myself, "Remember this:
Kindness begins with me."
For some must push and some must pull,
As we go marching up the hill;
Singing, singing all the day
Give away oh give away.

To summarize (my favorite Primary hymn/scripture):
In whatever corner we may chance to grow,
Whether cold or warm the wind may ever blow.
Dark the day or sunny, we must try, try, try.
Just one spot to gladden, you and I.
                              --"Little Purple Pansies"

Saturday, August 13, 2016

The Brilliant Universe

Two nights in a row
I went out to see the Perseid Meteor Shower.
The first night, I saw 1-1/2 falling stars.
The second night,
I saw none.
But with eyes wide open,
Staring up at the stars,
I saw the Universe displayed.
Swirls and shapes in purple hues
A magnificent chandelier
Stretching from heaven to earth
Expanding and receding
Zooming towards me and back again
Two or three times I tuned in
To this superlative spectacle
Of a different dimension.
Who cares that I barely saw
A shooting star?

Thursday, August 11, 2016

Respite

It’s so quiet after everyone leaves Monday morning.
DeRay and Eddy are driving with Clare to
Richland, Washington, to visit Marilyn;
Amy is off to work.
The cats are outside.
It feels both good and bad.
The good: a rest; a change. 
The bad: Missing my best friends.
A bit eerie.
I’m not well acquainted with solitude. 

Saturday, August 6, 2016

WHY USA CHRISTIANS SHOULD VOTE DEMOCRATIC IN 2016

ABSTRACT:  Christians, including Mormons, should consider moral and ethical issues when deciding whom to support in an election. The teachings of Jesus in the four gospels should be an important guide in considering the issues raised in a campaign.

     My sisters and I attend this presentation. The presenter is Bill Russell, a professor emeritus of American history and politics at Graceland University. He is a past president of both the Mormon History Association and the John Whitmer Historical Association. (Graceland is owned by the Community of Christ Church. Bill told us two apostles from his church were presenting.) We sit in the middle of the theater and right away notice Bill's T-Shirt: VOTE REPUBLICAN.
     Because it hasn't started yet, we call down, "Bill, What else does your T-Shirt say?"
     He can't read upside down, she he has someone on the front row read it:
                                                       If you want to:
                                                       Eat tainted meat
                                                       Breathe poisoned air
                                                       Drink nasty water
                                                       Help only yourself
                                                       VOTE REPUBLICAN
     Briefly, (he's sending us a copy of his talk), his points were:
1.  Poverty.
2.  Minimum wage.
3.  Tax Policy.
4.  Environmental denial of science.
5.  Wall in Mexico.
6.  Muslims.
7.  Civil Rights.
8.  Women.
9.  Gay Rights.
10.Labor Unions.
11. Capital Punishment.
12. Gun Rights.  

Friday, August 5, 2016

Wisdom Literature

WISDOM LITERATURE FROM
80-YEAR OLDS
at a Valley High School Class Reunion


My life wasn’t what I thought it would be. It is so much better. – Odean Crofts
Prove all things and hold fast to that which is truth. – Nolen Roundy
Treasure my Memories. –Maureen Ramsay
Patience. –Darol Heaton
I can describe my life in one sentence – It didn’t go as planned, and that’s OK. Don’t sweat the small stuff. Nothing is more important than people. – Georgia Heaton
One of my 4th grade students taught me a valuable lesson. I had just scolded the class for being so rowdy and everything was very quiet. One rather timid boy came up to my desk and said: “Bruce, did you know that happy people are healthier than grumpy people?” –Bruce Hoyt
Not yet being 80 (I have to rub that in), I won’t be as wise as most of you; but what I have learned is that we need to pay attention to our lives. If we are attentive, we will see joy, peace, love, and creativity in the present moment (even with the aches and pains of old age). –Jeanette Hugh
Happiness is a choice. –Carol Jean Eves
I have two choices: I can choose to be happy or I can choose to be sad; and I choose to be happy. The trick is to enjoy life. Don’t wish away your days waiting for better ones ahead. –Lenore Tisdale
After 80+ trips around the sun –about 60 billion miles around the galaxy – approximately 3.76 trillion miles though the universe I have learned that I don’t know anything-----but here is what I have observed: Here we are on this little tiny spaceship out in the middle of the universe, with no filling stations , rest stops or  convenience  stores that we know about , and yet we choose to fight over everything to the point of doing away with each other  and ripping up the planet.  I wonder if we could do better?  All in all I still love everything about this world and life and blessings I have had. – Dale Heaton

Sadly, now that we’re old and wise, no one wants our advice.

           Even when you're old and supposed to be wise, on the spur of the moment, it's difficult to think of what you have learned in your long life. We should write down our bits of wisdom as they come to us each day. 
     This morning as I walk into the kitchen, my feet stick with every step. DeRay had bottled 12 quarts of bread and butter pickles late last night.
     "The Cardinal Rule of Canning is you mop the floor before going to bed." Even before you add the sugar, the floor is sticky. I don't understand it. It's something I know to be true from years of experience.
      The second thing I learned this morning.  If you ever lose your family and want them to come quickly, mop the floor. I wasn't quite finished when I hear these footsteps coming up from the basement, then clomp clomp clomp down the stairs; the cats rush in from outside. Everyone is gathered at  7 o'clock in the morning. DeRay rarely comes down from the computer room before noon or 2 PM. The cats generally stay out all day. Amy is usually gone. Unless you mop the floor.
     Another bit of wisdom I wish to pass on is:  If you want to get rid of something, don't bother making a trip to DI, just loan it to someone. Poof. It's gone forever. You never get it back. Until you get puffed up with pride of your grand plot, then everyone returns everything and you still have to make a trip to DI--or have them put it directly in the garbage can.  Strike that one. I'm not doing very good at emptying my nest, which I should be doing at this stage in my life.
     Each morning after shavasana, I turn on my side and lie in the fetal position before getting up. The fetal position symbolizes a new beginning, a new birth; a fresh start on the day. I sometimes think of a gypsy song we learned in high school: We only live for just one day.* Each day is a new life. Refreshing. So many possibilities without the burden of yesterday's problems and mistakes. Miles Davis said it best: My future starts when I wake up every morning.
     Another thing I have learned, I am reminded as I attempt to get up off the ball after sitting at my computer for too long, is that it doesn't matter how much you work out at the gym, how many miles you trike ride or how many stretches you do daily, if you pull weeds in the garden for two hours one day and two hours the next day, you will be so stiff and sore you can hardly move. For days. Why is that?


*“Play, gypsies, dance, gypsies, play while you may.
We’re gypsies one and all I say,
And through our youth’s May time, love’s playtime
Hearts ever gay.
We only live for just one day

The will o’wisp of pleasure glides
All the future hides
Love the only law obeying
Youth, a gypsy, goes a straying”

—Emmerich Kalman (1908)
                      From the operetta "Countess Maritza"